(Posted by Cathy DuBois) In this final installment of the 7 Stages of Grief series I will share with you some of the ways that I used my grief work to increase my consciousness and gain inner strength and clarity for my forward climb up and out of that funnel of Tick-Tock and beyond. Be sure to catch up by reading my last 6 Blogs on this multidimensional topic for a full understanding of what follows.
7 Stages of Grief
Any person who wants to make the most of their life and their abilities and dreams must come to the moment in time when they begin to wake up. This means they start to see that what we have been taught since birth is all a big fat crock of nonsense. Your parents are not to blame as they got the same treatment and brainwashing routine you got. This has been a planetary fact of life for many thousands of years. Our overlords liked it that way. We were their slaves and not allowed to understand things as they really are.
That is changing now as the planet is beginning to ascend to a higher dimension and taking us with her. Those who understand and work with her, that is. Many will not make the trip and will continue their journey elsewhere. Those who do their grief work and rearrange their values will clear their fields and embrace the new opportunities ahead. If you have stuck with me this far, you are probably destined to go to the next vibrational dimension if you continue to do your inner work.
In my hour of total despair, when I really believed that my sanity and reason for living would never be sound again, I was given the gift of Grace. A flash of Clarity, Perfection and Beauty overcame me so completely that even after more than 30 years I have never forgotten nor can I adequately describe it. A sense of PEACE and LOVE so great it totally wiped away all my human beliefs, desires and values.
What I call my Wake-up is such a small way to describe it. What came immediately clear was that I had to find better ways to do life. I had to read everything I could find and do everything differently. Before to much time had passed, I changed my job, left religion, dropped people I thought I knew, sold my home and moved to a different city and changed my college major. I cut ties to a very sick family of origin and I found a support group and got involved in community service.
I also began a long and fruitful grieving process with the help of some awesome professionals who understood what I needed to do to get on with life in a beneficial way. To build healthy relationships and make good choices based on reality. It was some years later that I began to discover how we are controlled, etc. But I was prepared for that challenge. I had continuously worked on my inner self, my stuff, my baggage. I had reconnected with my family and my kids were benefiting from all the changes I had made. I was getting lighter and lighter. I liked myself a lot more and it became much easier to deal with people who had not done their work. I could really practice patience and service. I am always working on my inner game. Doing the work, clearing the energy. I love helping others do it, too.
I can’t say if you will have the same Wake-up as I did. Everyone is different and I was so hard- headed and such a control freak I think only lightening striking would have gotten my attention. So who can say. But if you want it, it will happen. Let me know when it does, and we will celebrate!
When you become
conscious that this is actually a process and not a destination, each new
revelation will be a challenge and not be so hard to process. If you would like me to help you navigate
this passage you are making, please contact me and we can start a dialog. Thank
you for reading my series and send a link to those you think could use the
If this is new to you, get educated. But you better hurry up. If you need guidance to navigate through all of the psycho – behavior that you may run into, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I can share links and websites I believe in and follow. I am available to teach you about boundaries and give you some life-skills to help you cope. Don’t allow disrespectful people to control your life’s path.
New energies are now flooding Gaia, our beautiful planet. They are also blessing us with the ability to quickly go beyond all that has been holding us back IF that is where we want to go. So please decide you want to be free to live in peace and contribute your love and light to all.
This is the New Gaia and is the home of the Creator Beings. Practice it, think about it and let go of the past. It is time to chose who you want to be and consciously be that now. If you want more guidance on this important topic stay tuned for more resources.
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Author Notes: Cathy DuBois is a healer, teacher, coach and Dr. of Clinical Hypnotherapy.
She is a published author and seeker of truth. Visit her website at www.tripleheart.co