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(Posted by Cathy DuBois)   In this installment on the 7 Stages of Grief I will acquaint you with some other ideas that you may find intriguing. So, if you have not yet done so, please read my last three Blogs so you are up to speed.  I am also re-listing the Stages to help with our discussion.

7 Stages of Grief

  • Shock
  • Denial
  • Anger
  • Bargaining
  • Depression
  • Testing
  • Acceptance

     You may already be aware that we live in an ultra controlled situation on this planet. You may have seen firsthand how there is a two tiered justice system.  You may realize that money talks and big money rules, but you don’t have much of it.  All of these tell you something very important about your state of being.  You are on the road out of “Tick-Tock”  If you stay on this trajectory you will become more fully awake, aware and enlightened.  That is a very good thing to accomplish in my opinion. But beware of those who wish you to stay stuck where you are.  Humans are programmed into needing to keep things the same.  It may hurt and have no future but we know what we have and what to do with it. And we will not let anyone raise above this place without trying to pull then back down.

     Think of a funnel.  All humanity is crammed down into the smallest place. Doing the same old things day in and day out.  As one decides to raise above the norm of this life he will slowly spiral up and up until he has reached the top.  That is if those in Tick-Tock don’t succeed in pulling him back into their minutia. They will try and try and try some more, too.

     Stuart Wilde was a teacher and prolific writer on subjects not usually discussed in the mainstream. Search his books out as they are well worth your time and effort.  He thought differently about the role of humans and created this Funnel/Tick-Tock analogy as a simple way to explain a very complex journey. Visualizing this funnel got me through many of those “what the heck?” moments as I made my way out.

      By now you are probably wondering why I bring all of this up when dealing with grief is the topic of the Blog.  Well, when you leave Tick-Tock you will meet grief points all along the way.  If you are equipped with the skills to navigate through the 7 stages it will go much smoother and quicker.  It really is a matter of having another Life-skill in your tool box. It is something you can learn not to be afraid of feeling. It is never fun but it is doable.  

       There is much Love and Light for you to discover in this quest. We are precious beings who are working our way back home.  It’s all in perfect timing and full of blessings and Grace. The real message for this Blog is that Love and Grace will hold your hand and soothe your heart and soul if you will consciously allow them in.  You don’t have to earn them.

  I will do more Blogs about these Stages of Grief and why they matter so much to an awakening soul. When you become conscious that this is actually a process and not a destination, each new revelation will be a challenge and not be so hard to process. If you would like me to help you navigate this passage you are making, please contact me and we can start a dialog.

    If this is new to you, get educated.  But you better hurry up. If you need guidance to navigate through all of the psycho – behavior that you may run into, email me at  I can share links and websites I believe in and follow. I am available to teach you about boundaries and give you some life-skills to help you cope.  Don’t allow disrespectful people to control your life’s path.

    New energies are now flooding Gaia, our beautiful planet. They are also blessing us with the ability to quickly go beyond all that has been holding us back IF that is where we want to go. So please decide you want to be free to live in peace and contribute your love and light to all.

    This is the New Gaia and is the home of the Creator Beings.  Practice it, think about it and let go of the past.   It is time to chose who you want to be and consciously be that now.  If you want more guidance on this important topic stay tuned for more resources.

Happy creating!

    Please feel free to share this original work with others as it is written.

Thank you.

Author Notes:  Cathy DuBois is a healer, teacher, coach and Dr. of Clinical Hypnotherapy. She is a published author and seeker of truth.  Visit her website at