(Posted by Cathy DuBois)   As promised, here is the second installment on the 7 Stages of Grief.  If you have not yet done so, please read my last Blog so you are up to speed.  I am re-listing the Stages to help with our discussion.

7 Stages of Grief

  • Shock
  • Denial
  • Anger
  • Bargaining
  • Depression
  • Testing
  • Acceptance

     When I discovered that the religion I was brought up in and had spent many hours and much coin supporting was dogma for the planet’s control system, as all religions are, it was quite shocking. It was the first of many shocks that would follow over the next 20 or so years.  But it was my “maiden voyage” for the awakening and grieving process that had to follow.  It was the “wake up” call that set me on the path of discovery and recovery.  Who am I really? Why are we here in this place? Is there a safe way out of here? These are the repeating questions until one gets it that EVERYTHING we know, see, understand to be true and correct about life on earth is all a LIE, LIE, LIE.  EVERYTHING IS A LIE. I do not traffic in fear. I tell the truth as I understand it. So here we go.

    Everything has been put in place to set a certain course. There are no exceptions. When that narrative is challenged it is squashed immediately.  Recent case in point:  There are in excess of 90 Alternative Health Practitioners who have died very young and very suspiciously in the last few years. It was one a week there for awhile. This is a massive loss of brilliance and a blow to everyone who cares about their brothers and sisters and being healthy.

Big Pharma is the lie around this. It is coming out that pretty much everything they manufacture is harmful to humans and they know it but keep right on selling it.

    Does that Shock you?  Good, it should.  Wake up and do your own research.  But I warn you, it will lead to the next Shock.  You must be an adult and take the grief on and process it. Be angry about it. Be depressed. Bargain with yourself, be depressed when that will not work.  Maybe you will even feel like there is something you can do to change the situation. Write about it, talk about it, Test that theory as you finally accept the truth.

   There is much Love and Light for you to discover in this quest. We are precious beings who are working our way back home.  It’s all in perfect timing and full of blessings and Grace. The real message for this Blog is that Love and Grace will hold your hand and sooth your heart and soul if you will consciously allow them in.  You don’t have to earn them.

  I will do more Blogs about these Stages of Grief and why they matter so much to an awakening soul. When you become conscious that this is actually a process and not a destination, each new revelation will be a challenge and not be so hard to process. If you would like me to help you navigate this passage you are making, please contact me and we can start a dialog.

    If this is new to you, get educated.  But you better hurry up. If you need guidance to navigate through all of the psycho – behavior that you may run into, email me at  I can share links and websites I believe in and follow. I am available to teach you about boundaries and give you some life-skills to help you cope.  Don’t allow disrespectful people to control your life’s path.

    New energies are now flooding Gaia, our beautiful planet. They are also blessing us with the ability to quickly go beyond all that has been holding us back IF that is where we want to go. So please decide you want to be free to live in peace and contribute your love and light to all.

    This is the New Gaia and is the home of the Creator Beings.  Practice it, think about it and let go of the past.   It is time to chose who you want to be and consciously be that now.  If you want more guidance on this important topic stay tuned for more resources.

Happy creating!

    Please feel free to share this original work with others as it is written.

Thank you.

Author Notes:  Cathy DuBois is a healer, teacher, coach and Dr. of Clinical Hypnotherapy.

She is a published author and seeker of truth.  Visit her website at